Scorpio Guy

You should neither reveal everything nor hide everything from a scorpio. If you reveal everything easily, the scorpio might feel less challenged and lose interest. If you hide everything, the scorpio will not trust you. So the goal is to keep the scorpio at the tip always. And it is not an easy job.
Do not lie to a scorpio. A scorpio will detect lies easily and once the scorpio realises that you lied, then he won't trust you again. No matter what you do.
Do not chase a scorpio. They like to do the chasing. If you start chasing he might play.
Do not be afraid to be vulnerable. If you are afraid to be vulnerable then do not go after a scorpio. Because, a relationship with a scorpio will be highly passionate and intense. A scorpio will unravel each layer of your personality. You will never be able to resist. Build your walls as high as you can; still you will see him coming through. He will visit the darkest corners of your heart that you have been holding back. It will be a mind blowing experience.
Do not ask questions to a scorpio. You won't get answers. He will say everything when he feels like. If you try to make him open up, he will shut off completely.
Do not take a scorpio for granted. You might have succeeded in getting closer to a scorpio. You might have seen their inner world. Wait. You can go from everything to nothing in a flash of a second. Its hard. But true. You cannot never ever predict when a scorpio will put back their walls back.
Do not blame a scorpio. They are very good in arguments. Also, they table will be turned too easily and fingers will be pointed at you soon. In no time you will be the one seeking sorry and trying hard to understand how did this happen.

All these facts give a scorpio a villain image. But above all these things, they are one of the best kind of people you can count upon as friends. You will transform yourself into your best if you have a scorpio in your life. The relationship will be an emotional roller coster but if you are strong enough you will grow in that relationship.

               Beauty Of A Relationship

“I’ve been fighting to be who I am all my life. What’s the point of being who I am, if I can’t have the person who was worth all the fighting for?”
― Stephanie Lennox, I Don't Remember You

Each and every person who passes through our life plays some role, however small it is. A relationship need not always end in a bad way. What you carry away with you is all up to you.

Sometimes a mutual understanding can help things end in a beautiful way.

And in such a relationship you can always carry forward positive memories.

I share few positive impacts I had in my life from one such relationship.

1. I learned how to respect a man.
2. For a man, it’s not love that makes him fall for you. It’s the respect you show him. More than love, a man looks for respect from his woman.
3. I realized that I can love a person with my full heart.
4. He showed me my true self.
5. First and may be last time I let myself become vulnerable.
6. I learned how to express my feelings.
7. It gave life to my long lost creative mind.
8. I started loving myself more.
9. I learned how to give the other person importance while conversing.
10. I learned self care.
11. I have lots of wisdom quotes from him while facing difficulties.
12. I learned one important fact – Do not to look for answers. It will come to you at the right time.
13. If he didn’t tell me something then sure it will be something unpleasant to hear. I can consider it in two ways. He is filling me with lies or He is trying to not hurt me. Its all about my perception.
14. Too much anxiety can take away the fun.
15. Don’t be afraid to voice your opinions in a respectful manner.

In brief, I became a better version of myself.

I am and I will always be grateful for this to him.

                   Happy Friendship Day

Its only your name that comes to my mind when I think of a friend. I'm so grateful to have you as my best friend. You have been with me always. The support care and love you gave me is what helped me get through all the tough times. You are a very true friend. Wish you a very happy and successful life. All your dreams will come true. 

         

            Change your thoughts and you change your life

Daisies and Darkness: ❇ 14 day challenge for the depressed ❇

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Anxiety a Dementor

It comes from no where..                                     
Then all I can feel is deep sorrow and loneliness..                                                                                                                    It shakes me.. It breaks me.. It leaves me hopeless..         
All enthusiasm gone.. I feel like screaming..                 
Its in this moment I long for you the most..                                                                  
I wish, you could be here.. To hold me tight..                                    
Then its all gone.. I'll be stronger again..                                                                   
But you are away.. Far away from me..                                              
I beg to to the almighty to take away this feeling..                                                
To let me free.. To fill my heart with hope..                                        
I wanna go.. Chase my dream.. Not be a victim of this feeling..       
Fill my heart with hope.. Let me live.. I wanna live..

We all become anxious at times. But for some like me anxiety becomes frequent and goes a bit far such that it starts affecting daily life. However hard you try to keep yourself happy and positive its difficult to stop this panic attack. Its my experience. Only recently I started facing this challenge. I didn't bother about it earlier, but later when it started haunting me so much I started to analyze it. 

For me it was usually in the afternoon. I wasn't able to take a nap during day time. After the nap or in between I suddenly wake up with a deep sense of sadness or loss or whatever it may be. It was quiet puzzling because I might not even have had any thoughts in my mind to make me feel sad. It will be the worst feeling that anyone can have. Only solution to avoid it was to not take a nap in the noon, because once it comes then its like a dementor attack as in Harry Potter movie. It takes away every bit of happiness and leaves you in a sea of hopelessness. 

              

Avoiding nap helped me. I didn't have to face the dementor anymore. I went on without much problem. Then it showed up again at other times. I finally understood that when I'm running away it is following me even faster. So I stopped running and decided to face it. It wasn't easy.

I searched on Google and read and understood more about this. There were lot of solutions to this out of which one you can do without any side effects is meditation, yoga and breathing exercises and practice mind-fullness. I was looking for self help because my circumstances didn't allow me to consult a therapist. So, I started doing meditation whenever I felt I'm getting those feelings. I never thought I could sit and meditate. But it wasn't difficult. I slowly started enjoying it. It really helped me. I started feeling better. I used to meditate many times a day. After few days I didn't need to take that much effort. Now I do a 20 minute meditation every morning. It has become a part of my routine. 

There are a lot of guided meditations available on YouTube. Since I needed to get a grip on my emotions I chose this guided meditation Transforming Emotions.

              https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NEPzjZt2EGU

After doing all these still I used to have panic attacks. But, I started facing it in a different way. Its effect was not that severe. I could easily switch back to my normal mood rather than dwelling in deep sadness.

I also started reading self help books. First one I read was Tony Robbins' book Awakening The Giant Within You. It can be downloaded or bought. Its worth the price. Then I recently finished Norman Vincent Peale's Why Some Positive Thinkers Get Powerful Results. All throughout the book you'll feel that the author is walking along with you. Both these books cite lot of experiences of others who has faced depression, failure and such feelings and how they overcame and finally succeeded. 

After reading Awakening The Giant Within You, I started using metaphors as he has suggested in the book. My metaphor for Panic is pancake. I love food, so I chose this one. It just brings down the intensity of that feeling when I say Pancake instead of panic. The feeling is still there but with much less severity. 

If we want to come out of suffering, the best person to seek help is ourselves. Only we know us completely. Believe in God and be positive and seek help and give help to others when need it. Sometimes just being with the person is enough to bring them back.

I don't know

                              
                            
                              I don't know how I found you
                        I don't know when I started loving you
                              I don't know why I love you
                           I don't know how to be your love
                             I don't know whom you love
                             I don't know how to win you
                    I don't know why I pretend I don't know